Friendship

I’m sure you have a best friend, who doesn’t? I’m sure you have gotten mad at him/her at least once..who hasn’t? I loose and gain friends a lot..but that’s life. Everyone changes, and you can’t stop that. Anyway, most people have a lot of expectations for their best friend and even close friends. They are most likely honesty, trust, and things of that nature. I’m not here to tell you that you’re best friend is a fake or that you don’t know what friendship is. This article is to help you. Whether you had a fight with your friend..or your just bored and want to read something. Either way, here we go.

There are some qualities I look for in a friend. Honesty: If this person lies to you all the time…I think it’s easy to see he/she isn’t a real friend. I like to have people tell me the truth because, I can handle it. Trust: If I have a secret (of course I do) and I tell a friend, do I want other people to know about it? No. If I tell my friend something I want to be able to be sure that no one else will know..that’s why it’s called a secret.

I’m sure you have gotten in a fight with a friend, only a few people don’t. I bet that you were mad/sad at the same time when the fight occurred. That’s a natural response. You think you’re right, obviously or you wouldn’t be arguing. So, here is what I think about after a fight.

1.) Was the fight that really a big of a deal?
2.) Is it worth loosing this person?
3.) Were we arguing about something serious?

That helps me decide if I want to apologize, or just move on because that person wasn’t a good friend anyway. I admit, I don’t think of those questions every time I get in a fight, but I do think about those questions and questions similar a lot.